tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post5726598562246751899..comments2023-12-30T23:28:29.192-05:00Comments on The Yllescas Family: We found a houseUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-90067459270362977362009-01-22T10:05:00.000-05:002009-01-22T10:05:00.000-05:00How's it going Dena? I miss you!xoxHow's it going Dena? I miss you!<BR/><BR/>xoxNancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01104523771898429145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-48148051251408282762009-01-21T16:57:00.000-05:002009-01-21T16:57:00.000-05:00Hi Dena, bitter-sweet beginnings...so glad you hav...Hi Dena, bitter-sweet beginnings...so glad you have found home.....blessings are found even in the worst of trials...much peace and blessings thru Jesus...take carenacotacohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00169269449005204640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-20917090382933609582009-01-20T22:38:00.000-05:002009-01-20T22:38:00.000-05:00Dena,I'm so glad to hear that you found a house. ...Dena,<BR/><BR/>I'm so glad to hear that you found a house. We can't wait to come and see it! Let Tim and I know when we can come help you move in, paint, hang pictures, etc. We'd love to help you out.<BR/><BR/>Yes, Rob would be incredibly proud of you, Dena. I have often thought that if I could have 5 minutes to talk to Rob again and give him one message, that message would be that he should be proud of you. It would take me a lot longer than 5 minutes to explain all of the reasons why he should be proud, but I think he would get the picture quickly.<BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself, Dena, and lean on your friends. We love you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-68484037142927242422009-01-20T21:05:00.000-05:002009-01-20T21:05:00.000-05:00Dena,Hi! So good to hear you guys found a new hom...Dena,<BR/>Hi! So good to hear you guys found a new home to call your own. I cannot wait to see pictures of it. Please forgive me for not posting a comment for a while, Quinn got block leave and we did some traveling and then I have been sick. You, Julia and Eva are in my daily thoughts and prayers. <BR/><BR/>I hope the Charlie Brown group goes well it is good to hear how excited Julia is about it. She is such a strong little girl, I guess she must have gotten that from her parents. :) <BR/><BR/>Thank you for still sharing your journey with us. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you always,<BR/>Mel, Quinn, Lauren & MeghanUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03122412496975189764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-30709633045324251272009-01-20T16:01:00.000-05:002009-01-20T16:01:00.000-05:00Dena,First off, I want you to know that I'm impres...Dena,<BR/><BR/>First off, I want you to know that I'm impressed by your faith and strength. You are truly an inspiration!a<BR/><BR/>Also... since we both live in Lincoln, if there is anything you need or want help with just let me know. That also applies if you just need a little break from the daily grind. Sometimes getting together with girl friends makes a difference when your going through a rough time. And I'm always game for a girls' day or night out. :) <BR/><BR/>Continue to hang in there, you and the girls are doing a great job.<BR/><BR/>Tiffany SimonsenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-46482667479181703082009-01-20T13:45:00.000-05:002009-01-20T13:45:00.000-05:00Dena,Not long ago I stumbled across your blog and ...Dena,<BR/><BR/>Not long ago I stumbled across your blog and followed your story post by post. Your husband helped turn this world into a better one. He will always be remembered. As much as he has been an inspiration to you, you are an inspiration to me. All the best to you and your family.<BR/><BR/>Ursula from AustriaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-83567156806339159682009-01-19T21:36:00.000-05:002009-01-19T21:36:00.000-05:00I'm so glad you've found a house for you and the g...I'm so glad you've found a house for you and the girls. I can't imagine, however, how difficult that must be. My heart breaks for you and your girls. It sounds like you have a great family that will provide you with lots of support, though, which always helps. You're in my prayers. (I'm another one of those people you don't know. I've commented a time or two before.)Pamela @ Frugal Vet Techhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12441885441405263646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-60305868153395443522009-01-19T00:56:00.000-05:002009-01-19T00:56:00.000-05:00Hello there. Sorry so late. I've read all your b...Hello there. Sorry so late. I've read all your blogs right away, but i'm usually on the go. I just wanted to say congrats on the new home. I hope you'll be able to post some pictures of it sometime. I am always thinking of you and continue to pray for you and your family. Take care, and can't wait to hear more. <BR/>lacey cAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-70868931151330300412009-01-18T21:23:00.000-05:002009-01-18T21:23:00.000-05:00Dena~ I stumbled across your blog. I was in tears ...Dena~ I stumbled across your blog. I was in tears reading.....you are such a strong person and I admire your positive thinking, especially with your little girls! It must be so hard for you. Keep your head up!! Your little ones are precious! I know they probably keep you going!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-59264540130368382822009-01-18T14:13:00.000-05:002009-01-18T14:13:00.000-05:00Dena, Julia, and Eva,Such good news about finding ...Dena, Julia, and Eva,<BR/>Such good news about finding a house and being able to be close to your family! Also good to hear about connecting with the support of Charlie Brown's Kids. <BR/>We appreciate that you share how things are going. You are a witness to all of us that even in the darkest of days, we are lifted up. As in the 23rd Psalm, ("Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death . . ."), we will not "remain in" but will be carried "THROUGH" those dark days.<BR/>God's peace, and of course as always, you have our hugs and prayers.<BR/>Mitch and Vicki Coffin :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-59689085973994899232009-01-18T12:17:00.000-05:002009-01-18T12:17:00.000-05:00Dena - Thinking of you and you girls as you transi...Dena - <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and you girls as you transition to your new life in Nebraska. You need not worry, Rob's presence will be felt no matter where you and the girls live. As long as you need him to be, he'll be right there with you in your heart and your thoughts and dreams and in so many little ways. Your girls will keep you going, even when you don't really want to, they'll be the reason for getting up and on with it each day. In time, you will find enjoyment in your life. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there. I pray for you daily. You are going to be okay.<BR/><BR/>Carol Dzurenko<BR/>Powder Springs, GAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-23407785495866018722009-01-18T10:18:00.000-05:002009-01-18T10:18:00.000-05:00Dena~ Congrats on the house! That is such a big s...Dena~ Congrats on the house! That is such a big step. I am so pleased to hear that Julia helped you pick it out. Sounds like she is a girl who knows what she wants in life. Best of luck with the Charlie Brown group. Have fun moving in and making memories with your darling daughters. Remember, although Rob is not with you physically, he'll be in your thoughts and become part of the fun times you have in the future. God Bless and take care!<BR/><BR/>Heather in Helena, MTAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-56157461733328814532009-01-17T19:23:00.000-05:002009-01-17T19:23:00.000-05:00Dena,I am so proud of you for keeping on for you a...Dena,<BR/><BR/>I am so proud of you for keeping on for you and your girls. As another military wife and mother I just want you to know you and your girls are not forgotten. I continue to pray for you and your family. Your military family continues to support you and your girls and always will!!<BR/><BR/>From Hanging-on-momAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-28623050056305569092009-01-17T11:39:00.000-05:002009-01-17T11:39:00.000-05:00Dena,Glad to hear you found you new home. It's de...Dena,<BR/><BR/>Glad to hear you found you new home. It's definetly a step forward in taking things day by day. I just smiled from ear to ear about Julia's comment. It's amazing how wise our kids can be. It still blows my mind with some of the things that come out of their minds. Please know you will always have friends keeping you in our thoughts and always will have a door open for you whenever you need one. <BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>Donna W.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-43035480234481611842009-01-17T07:32:00.000-05:002009-01-17T07:32:00.000-05:00Hi Dena,Congratulations on the house! Good to read...Hi Dena,<BR/><BR/>Congratulations on the house! Good to read you'll be near family. Your daughter's comment is priceless! <BR/><BR/>Your family is in our thoughts often. You're moving forward with such strength and focus while coping with so many emotions. As many others have written, hope you find peace and harmony in your new home. <BR/><BR/>Thoughts and prayers for continued strength. Take good care of yourself.Long-time RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301386934882781722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-67355179710603546322009-01-16T22:13:00.000-05:002009-01-16T22:13:00.000-05:00Dear Dena,Congratulations! I know you are thrille...Dear Dena,<BR/><BR/>Congratulations! I know you are thrilled to find a new home! I am so very happy for you. <BR/><BR/>Please know that you and the girls remain in our nightly prayers. <BR/><BR/>Good luck at the counseling sessions! I am sure that you will find them very helpful as will Julia. Between your family and the counseling sessions you are well loved and well taken care of!<BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>MichelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-31269357484455562892009-01-16T13:16:00.000-05:002009-01-16T13:16:00.000-05:00Dena,Congrats on finding a house! I know you and t...Dena,<BR/>Congrats on finding a house! I know you and the girls will give it all the love it needs. And having it close to your brothers is great. Remember all of us are not very far away.Have fun decorating it.Love always.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-4216729470354787602009-01-16T09:01:00.000-05:002009-01-16T09:01:00.000-05:00YAY!! Hope everything goes smoothly!Congrats.HYAY!! Hope everything goes smoothly!<BR/><BR/>Congrats.<BR/><BR/>HHousehold6https://www.blogger.com/profile/12307072916245221235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-53309783870430918682009-01-16T00:26:00.000-05:002009-01-16T00:26:00.000-05:00Hi Dena,I just sent you a message and lost it comp...Hi Dena,<BR/>I just sent you a message and lost it completely. Ugh...sometimes computers can be such a headache!!<BR/>I am happy for you that you found a new home for your family. Rob would be so proud of you right now. It will be good to get settled in and find a new "normal" for you and the girls.<BR/>I hope you had a good Christmas. I talked to Grandma and she said you did. My kids said they saw you at Grandma and Grandpa's anniversary dinner. I wanted to go, but Dan and I were in San Diego for one of his meetings.<BR/>I just want you to know that I continue to think about you daily and hope that you are doing o.k. The healing process is going to take time, but I know you, and you are one strong person. Lean on the support of others, and also the thought that Rob may not be with you physically, but he is in spirit.<BR/>"He whom we love and lose is no longer where he was before, he is now wherever we are." <BR/>Take care of you, and hang in there. Love, JaimeJaime Pachtahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09273487110155675394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-34095085989402411592009-01-16T00:13:00.000-05:002009-01-16T00:13:00.000-05:00Hi Dena,Congratulations on finding a house. It so...Hi Dena,<BR/>Congratulations on finding a house. It soon will become "home" for you and the girls. Rob would be proud of you for staying strong and providing for your family. It will be good for you and the girls to get settled and find your new "normal".<BR/>I hope you had a great Christmas. I talked to Grandma and she said that you did. My kids said that they saw you at Grandma and Grandpa's anniversary dinner. Dan and I were in San Diego for one of his meetings, so we were unable to attend. I just want you to know that I think of you daily and hope that you are doing o.k. The healing process is going to take time, but I know you, and you are one strong person. Lean on the support of others, and also the thought that even though Rob isn't with you physically, he is in spirit. <BR/>"He whom we love and lose if no longer where he was before, he is now wherever we are."<BR/>Take Care of you, and hang in there. Love, JaimeJaime Pachtahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09273487110155675394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-68327116299034265452009-01-15T23:18:00.000-05:002009-01-15T23:18:00.000-05:00I didn't read all of the other comments, but wow, ...I didn't read all of the other comments, but wow, Dena. Huge step, girl. Good job. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for keeping us posted. Each time you write, it becomes a testimony of what God is doing in your life. I think someone commented in the beginning. This whole blog, right from the beginning is blessing so many lives, and you will be able to look back and read it all someday. It's tough to go thru the crap, and we don't know why things happen, but without trying to, you have ministered to so many with your honesty.<BR/><BR/>We love you girl!<BR/><BR/>Rich and BonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-27444885802784098222009-01-15T21:49:00.000-05:002009-01-15T21:49:00.000-05:00Dena:Congratulations on finding the house. In time...Dena:<BR/><BR/>Congratulations on finding the house. In time it will become "Home" to you and the girls.<BR/>Rob would be so proud of you for moving forward and providing for your family.<BR/>I've been praying for you and the girls and can see some prayers being answered.<BR/>I'll pray for the kids support group and that healing can take place for Julia.<BR/>Keep your eyes on The Lord and keep Rob's memories alive in your heart.<BR/>MIke from Topeka, KSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-58888241948932599892009-01-15T20:46:00.000-05:002009-01-15T20:46:00.000-05:00HI Dena, Congrates onyour new home. In time it wil...HI Dena, Congrates onyour new home. In time it will feel like you home once you get your things in there. I'm reading a book and it backs me think of you each time I pick it up. Your love of God shows in every thing you do and say. I'm so glad that you guys are going to the support group. Kids can say the cutties things. You guys are in my prays daily. Love CarolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-31971297826358024012009-01-15T20:29:00.000-05:002009-01-15T20:29:00.000-05:00Dena,I found your blog from a link on another blog...Dena,<BR/>I found your blog from a link on another blog. I know how you feel about this whole process . . . I am four years into this same situation/journey . . . if you need anything don't hesitate to ask those who have been right where you are . . . good luck.<BR/>HeidiHeidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07748294338540597112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427914240818002464.post-80415128083083774432009-01-15T19:14:00.000-05:002009-01-15T19:14:00.000-05:00Julia is wise beyond her years- I've always said t...Julia is wise beyond her years- I've always said that about her... she's an "old soul" in so many ways. I love it. Looking forward to hearing about the meeting tomorrow... Keep up the good work Dena...Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01104523771898429145noreply@blogger.com